tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-62847805709251656052024-02-18T20:55:04.341-05:00Shift in PerspectiveIn life, I find myself constantly having to help myself or others shift their perspective. Psychologists would call it reframing. I call it seeing things from outside of myself. The world is not about us as most of us think, it is about Someone much greater than us. Let's take a shift in perspective . . .Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.comBlogger119125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-48373008252913511312017-10-29T20:22:00.001-04:002017-10-29T20:22:40.914-04:00Adoption Update 10: Perspective on STILL waitingWho knew this wait was going to take as long as it is taking??? . . . and we are still waiting. I have lost count how many children have come to our attention and a family member steps in. We are well over 20 children at this point in our over 3 year adoption process. We have been waiting nearly 13 years, but the official wait is just over 3 years. <br />
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There is a situation that has arisen, and we continue to wait even in the situation. At this point, we have gone from the occasional emotional roller coaster to a daily roller coaster. The prayer support from my friends and family has been humbling. I am forever grateful regardless of how the situation turns out. <br />
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As we try to understand the ups and downs of the situation, it makes no logical sense. We are constantly trying to apply logic to a very illogical situation. Yet God continues to remind me that it isn't about me . . .<br />
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1. There is a baby whose future has yet to be determined. <br />
2. There is a young birth mother that is trying to make the best decision she can for her baby's future. <br />
3. There is a young father in a world of trouble who is trying to manipulate everything with not much to stand on. <br />
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We want the baby to come into our home and be loved on with God's love. So that is the best answer, right? Maybe . . .<br />
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There are 3 souls here. A baby could really change a birth mother's or birth father's world. I have seen a baby change a person's direction in life for the positive. <br />
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There are 3 souls that are having some interaction with the love of Christ through us. It isn't direct contact right now, but the prayer support that we are experiencing is also affecting these three lives. <br />
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Then there are the many, many people that hear our story and are prompted to pray, to give, or just to watch as we struggle through. I have had many people talk about how our struggle has been so encouraging to them. One person said to me, "You have such a great perspective on this." I didn't get that on my own. God has graciously given me that perspective shift through His strength and the countless people praying for us. <br />
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The thing is, if I didn't have this perspective, I would be an anxiety-ridden, depressed, and angry individual. I HAVE to take the perspective that it isn't about me. This world and God's plan in it has very little to do with me, and EVERYTHING to do with God's glory. <br />
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So . . . there isn't much of an update here, but we just continue to wait. <br />
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How can you help? First and foremost, please pray for us, for the birth parents, the baby, and every person that encounters this scenario. None of us will do well without prayer. We are in desperate need of Him. <br />
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Secondly, we are a little short of our adoption costs because this process has taken so long . . . the 3+ years and now attorney fees with this extended process on this particular situation. You can support us financially through Paypal: mmozlee@yahoo.com or https://www.gofundme.com/gr2e5s<br />
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I am so grateful for all of you. <br />
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<br />Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-46439531743841706232016-12-31T14:36:00.000-05:002016-12-31T14:36:04.177-05:00Hope: Adoption Story pt. 9<div style="text-align: center;">
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This year has been one of significant challenges physically, spiritually, and emotionally which makes everything difficult. Everything feels like a chore. I am not sure that I would have made it without a couple of my friends constantly reminding me of their prayers for me even in my darkest days. The texts with Scripture and prayers gave me hope in a dry time. It reminded me of our church's (Candies Creek Church, www.candiescreekchurch.com) byline: River of Hope for a Thirsty Land. I was feeling thirsty, and the body of Christ brought me water. Hope is a powerful thing when discouraged.<br />
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The adoption front has been very dry. Some times we will have several opportunities that arise where babies may be adoptable in a matter of weeks, but this year has been VERY dry. We have considered using another agency, but the amount of paperwork, time, energy that takes to apply to any agency is a bit overwhelming when you are discouraged. <br />
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This morning I was reading from Brennan Manning's <i>Souvenirs of Solitude</i>. [I so enjoy Brennan Manning's writings. If you have never read anything by him, I highly encourage you to read something. Some of my favorites are: <i>The Ragamuffin Gospel,</i> <i>Abba's Child</i>, and <i>Ruthless Trust</i>.] I was feeling beat down spiritually, and he reminded me God's love of Israel, and their continued lack of trust in Him. I read Psalm 105 in conjunction with Manning's book, and read how God fought hard for His people. He loved them so much that He not only rescued His people, He destroyed those who fought against them. God loves us that much too! He sent His only son to leave Heaven to become a lowly human for 33 years, and then killed Him, so that we could spend eternity with Him. I want a child so much, and to think that God loved me so much that He killed His one and only child to show me how much He loved me . . . There are no words . . . only humble gratefulness. <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQlGMJp8FOJv2GyCLJ2V0sZPLVQsHNLlvJLTR1lOedAnbY4rtnFHje3eoknPkvhaXWSD3xPMw6jR4FSHlk6hWhYPgT161eIR1RwLxcuz7p7npoerZ6UHll_A9QZ2G6sUVPp506wnWKKdH_/s1600/Max+Cali.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQlGMJp8FOJv2GyCLJ2V0sZPLVQsHNLlvJLTR1lOedAnbY4rtnFHje3eoknPkvhaXWSD3xPMw6jR4FSHlk6hWhYPgT161eIR1RwLxcuz7p7npoerZ6UHll_A9QZ2G6sUVPp506wnWKKdH_/s320/Max+Cali.JPG" width="180" /></a>Overall, as I look back, Miles health has had some slight improvement. Our house is beginning to see some changes as he is sometimes able to work on it. When you live with chronic illness, it is very discouraging. We added Cali (an adopted Chocolate Havanese off a kill list in Los Angeles) to our family. I had some wonderful friends who were very encouraging to me. I have a job that I love, even when it was very stressful. God provided much more than we anticipated with the adoption fundraising. I was hoping for $2000 on our 2nd auction, and God brought in $2448, plus 2 donations totaling $2250. One of those donations was from a total stranger who gave us $2000!! Who does all of that? God does. In the dark days of hopelessness, we can't see the big picture, which is why a new year often brings hope. We tend to look back on the big picture for a few minutes. When I do that this year, I am hopeful as the new year approaches.<br />
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As a new year begins tomorrow, I will probably begin the paperwork for a more expensive adoption agency, Bethany Christian Services. It is one of the more used agencies, so they get more babies than the one we are using. I stayed away because of the expense, but now we are only $5000 shy of what we need for that agency. Silly me for not having faith in a God Who is so Big! Thanks to all of you who continue to pray for us and support us in so many ways. You are part of the way that God brings hope in our lives. <br />
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<br />Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-41842061669553594882016-09-25T16:33:00.000-04:002016-09-25T16:33:18.952-04:00Adoption Journey pt 8: Waiting is AWFUL!!! *** Warning: This blog is not uplifting and inspiring. It also may not be very easy to follow, as I have a lot of emotions and thoughts going through my head and heart.***<br />
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I have been thinking about my blog a bit over the last several months, and I keep avoiding it. I am in this awful period of the adoption process that everyone dreads. No one wants to hear my whining. Many never have to go through it, but many do, which is why I am taking the risk of appearing to be whining. May you never have to go through this . . .<br />
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It has been months since we have had any calls about a possible child situation. In some ways, I'm glad, as the emotional roller coaster isn't as stressful. However, not hearing anything gets really old, really fast. <br />
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Over the last 2 years, I have rejoiced with those who rejoice because they have gotten pregnant or have been able to adopt, and I have wept with those who miscarry or an adoption opportunity falls through. I have spent the last 12 years learning to handle it when people get pregnant, and I can honestly rejoice with them now. Then I had to learn how to rejoice with those who are able to adopt children, as I sit back and wait. The hardest ones for me at this point are the ones who have been in the process less time than we have, and get a child . . . just like it was hard to get used to people getting pregnant who weren't married or who got pregnant quickly. <br />
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[SIDE NOTE: One of those things that I have had to learn over the course of my life is to learn that everyone's pain is real and we all need encouragement . . . even if their pain <u>seems</u> ridiculous to you because you have been enduring the same pain twice as long as they have or their pain doesn't seem as painful as yours. We are all at different points in our lives, Everyone's pain is unique. God is leading all of us on a journey towards Him, and the lesson He is trying to teach me, may not be the same lesson that He is trying to teach someone else. God is sovereign. God is love. He is for us.]<br />
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I often wonder if God is trying to tell us that we weren't ever meant to have children in our home, and I still wonder that some days. Yet, God has brought in over $10,000 on this journey. It could cost us up to $30,000, and to have God provide all of this money at this point is humbling. <br />
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A few weeks ago, I bought this hand painted wooden sign from someone's fundraising auction that I don't even know who is adopting a precious baby girl from China. It sits on the dresser in an empty room waiting to be a nursery. If He doesn't bring a child into our home, it is going to be an awesome gift for someone else. In the mean time, it reminds me to pray for God's will for our lives. <br />
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Our friends have been so supportive, and we are so grateful for the friends that have rallied around us, encouraged us, and asked about the process. I'm really grateful for friends who continue to ask, even though nothing is happening. I'm grateful for the friends who continue to share their joys of pregnancy and adoption with us, in spite of where we are. It is hard to know how to handle people in this situation, and I for one am grateful that our friends haven't hidden their joys and trials from us.<br />
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I'm sorry that this blog isn't all exciting and encouraging, but I decided that I needed to be raw. You got raw . . . Now you know how to pray for us. Prayer is what we need more than anything else at this point. We are eternally grateful for your prayers. <br />
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We are going to have another facebook auction over Black Friday in late November, and we pray that God will continue to bring the funds in. If you want to be a part of the fundraising auction by donating items or services, or if you just want to be added to the auction so you can bid, let me know. I will be sure that you get added. <br />
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As always, you can donate to our gofundme page: <span style="background-color: #edf0f5; color: #666666; font-family: Lato, Lato, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center;">https://www.gofundme.com/gr2e5s.</span><br />
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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-76305094741619802202015-09-13T20:20:00.001-04:002015-09-13T20:20:21.186-04:00Christians: Don't be lazy; Get to work!<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This year has been a difficult for Christians in the United States. We feel as if we are under attack, and we are. It isn't about us though; it is about God. The world hates Him, and when you follow Him, they will hate you too.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Matthew 10:22, "</i><span style="background-color: white; font-style: italic; line-height: 24px;">You will be hated by everyone because of me,</span><i><span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-23440AB" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-23440AB" title="See cross-reference AB">AB</a>)" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></i><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"><i> but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved." </i></span></span><br />
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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-52762740245414650252015-08-04T14:31:00.000-04:002015-08-04T14:31:03.528-04:00Exhaustion<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm tired.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm tired mentally. I have been teaching online most of the summer, and some questions that I get blow my brain . . . really? Did you read anything I wrote? Then the facebook arguments over social issues, and the talking heads on television that I refuse to listen to anymore.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm tired emotionally. My husband's health has been poor, and that is very wearing on both of us. For some reason, I want to add a child to this caretaking role, and we just keep waiting with no news of anykind. The waiting . . . for the treatment to help my husband's symptoms or for a phone call from the adoption agency or for our home renovations to be completed or . . . the list is endless. We need to raise funds for adoption, but I am completely spent on everything else going on. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm tired spiritually. All of this exhaustion plays a role spiritually . . . or maybe it started with this one. The things going on in our nation are a direct attack from Satan. God has turned us over to our depraved minds (Romans 1:26), and I just cry out "Lord Jesus, come quickly". There is little hope of it getting better, though I know that if God wants to, at any point it could be better. I'm not trying to be negative here, but have you read Romans 1? I'm not even just talking about the Supreme court decision. I'm talking about Bruce Jenner, Planned Parenthood, TV advertisements & shows, etc. And what am I most exhausted about? Christians responding poorly to these events. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I feel like we are living in a Sodom & Gomorrah time where Lot asked God to spare the cities for just a few righteous people. Some days, I just want to say, "God just destroy us all, and come quickly." The world continues to get worse and worse. I know people have been saying this for years, but this year has really been heavy. And an election year is coming up . . . ugh. Commence bickering, mudslinging, negative, negative, negative. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I realize that my blog has been very negative and heavy until right now, but I want to take a turn here. We can't fall prey to the negativity. We must not grow weary in doing well (Galatians 6:9). Read Galatians 6:9 in its context.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i><span class="text Gal-6-7" id="en-NIV-29196" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box;">"</span><span class="text Gal-6-7" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;">Do not be deceived:<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29196J" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29196J" title="See cross-reference J">J</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.</span><span class="text Gal-6-8" id="en-NIV-29197" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;"><span class="versenum" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"> </span>Whoever sows to please their flesh,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29197L" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29197L" title="See cross-reference L">L</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> from the flesh will reap destruction;<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29197M" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29197M" title="See cross-reference M">M</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span>whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29197N" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29197N" title="See cross-reference N">N</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Gal-6-9" id="en-NIV-29198" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;"><span class="versenum" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"> </span>Let us not become weary in doing good,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29198O" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29198O" title="See cross-reference O">O</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29198P" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29198P" title="See cross-reference P">P</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Gal-6-10" id="en-NIV-29199" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;"><span class="versenum" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"> </span>Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29199Q" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29199Q" title="See cross-reference Q">Q</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> to all people, especially to those who belong to the family<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29199R" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29199R" title="See cross-reference R">R</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> of believers." Galatians 6:7-10.</span></i></span><br />
<br /><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I especially like the wording here "God CANNOT be mocked." We will reap what we sow. There are consequences. We are already reaping what has been sown which leaves us in this very dark place in our society. I often want to bury my head in the sand, and just continue to pray "Lord Jesus, come quickly" (and I do pray this). However, He calls us to not be weary in doing good. He calls us to fight. </span><div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i><span class="text Eph-6-10" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;"><span class="versenum" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"> </span>Finally, be strong in the Lord<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29348M" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29348M" title="See cross-reference M">M</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> and in his mighty power.<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29348N" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29348N" title="See cross-reference N">N</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Eph-6-11" id="en-NIV-29349" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; 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line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> but against the rulers, against the authorities,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29350Q" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29350Q" title="See cross-reference Q">Q</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> against the powers<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29350R" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29350R" title="See cross-reference R">R</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29350S" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29350S" title="See cross-reference S">S</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Eph-6-13" id="en-NIV-29351" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;">Therefore put on the full armor of God,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29351T" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29351T" title="See cross-reference T">T</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span>so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Eph-6-14" id="en-NIV-29352" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;">Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29352U" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29352U" title="See cross-reference U">U</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> with the breastplate of righteousness in place,</span><span class="text Eph-6-15" id="en-NIV-29353" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;">and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29353W" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29353W" title="See cross-reference W">W</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Eph-6-16" id="en-NIV-29354" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;">In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29354X" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29354X" title="See cross-reference X">X</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29354Y" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29354Y" title="See cross-reference Y">Y</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span></span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span class="text Eph-6-17" id="en-NIV-29355" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 24px;">Take the helmet of salvation <span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29355Z" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29355Z" title="See cross-reference Z">Z</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span>and the sword of the Spirit,<span class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-29355AA" data-link="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29355AA" title="See cross-reference AA">AA</a>)" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 22px; position: relative; top: 0px; vertical-align: top;"></span> which is the word of God." 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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-75921495647277626762015-06-04T13:14:00.000-04:002015-06-04T13:14:40.797-04:00Adoption Journey, part 7: God is Sovereign & MercifulSo yesterday we had our first interview with the birth parents of twins. It was nerve-wracking, but my wonderful husband who handles nerves so much better than I calmed me quickly in the interview. I stumbled around at first . . . What do you say to a couple who knows that the best thing for their babies is to give them to another couple? I'm humbled that they are considering us. I respect them highly for making that kind of decision. <br />
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The couple was extremely level-headed, and it really was impressive to watch. It wasn't your typical scenario. They both had full time jobs, and they were 26 & 30 years of age. They just are in a tough financial spot at the moment. I can't imagine what kind of guts it took for them to come to this kind of decision. <br />
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We built great rapport with them. We enjoyed our time with them. We were ourselves because we aren't going to fake it and try to be who they want us to be. We wanted to be real. We wanted to show them love. We could tell the father in particular needed alot of affirmation, and we both gave that to him. We tried to show them the love of Christ. <br />
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When we left, we felt like it went so well that we were both a little excited. I was trying to contain my immediate desire to plan. <br />
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We were almost home, when my phone rang with that familiar number. I answered, and she said, "You did a great job in the interview, but they chose the other couple." She was a little surprised since we had done such a good job at building rapport with them, but she guessed that the thing that had them choose the other couple was that the lady had been a nanny for 10 years. I wanted to scream . . . "I've been caring for children since I was 10! I've been an aunt since I was 5! I should have told them that! I knew it wouldn't matter at this point, just accept it and move on Liz." <br />
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So many people have encouraged me to blog through this experience, and the response to my blogging and facebook posts has been overwhelming. People have been encouraged by my postings and blogging, and we, in return, have been extremely encouraged by comments and prayers. <br />
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Pain is real. It is part of life. God grows us through each event in life. The prayers of the Body helped me grow tremendously in trust this past week. It helped prepare me for the answer of "They chose the other couple."<br />
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We know that there will be other opportunities, and whether we are chosen as the parents of these children or not . . . we know that God is sovereign. When you have TRUTH like that to hold on to, life becomes much more bearable. <br />
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We chose to be very open about this process knowing that disappointment (and having to communicate that) is difficult. We have watched so many couples struggle through this process in silence, and so we wanted to do this openly. We hope that even in our struggle and disappointment that many will be encouraged. <br />
<br />Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-31421061409791320122015-06-01T22:11:00.000-04:002015-06-01T22:11:03.706-04:00Adoption Journey, part 6: Watching God's sovereignty in the waitingSo we have been waiting for about 4 months for a baby. The first few months were a little easier because I was busy at work, but once the summer started, I began to get a little more antsy. I had read a book about a lady's experience with adoption called <i>Peace in the Process </i>by Kristin Hill. I was looking for ways to get ready without buying actual baby items. So I purchased some kid friendly decor for the bathroom that the child would be using at Target, and made a plan to remove the wallpaper and paint this weekend. <br />
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When I said hello, I realized it was our caseworker, and she was happy. She said that Miles & I and another couple had been selected by a birth couple to be interviewed as potential parents of their baby. The caseworker said, "Are you interested?" AM I INTERESTED!!?!?!? YES!!! She laughed and said, "There is one more thing you might want to know before you say yes." I gulped. Is the baby sick? She said, "They are having twins." I'm not sure what really happened next. I almost dropped the phone. I was completely overwhelmed. Can we handle twins? Is this a good idea? What should I do? I heard myself saying, "Yes, but let me call my husband first to be certain he is on the same page." I asked how far along the mother was, and she said, "Well . . . she is scheduled to have a C-section on June 19." Uh . . . that is 3 weeks away. I told her I would call her back after I spoke with Miles. When I called Miles, I told him everything I knew except the fact that the mother was having twins. I said, "You should probably sit down. There is one more thing that she told me. She is having twins." Miles' response was, "Well . . . I figured we would probably adopt more than one anyway!" I called her back, and told her we were up for this, and she said she would call me in the morning with the interview time. <br />
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Who knew God would have the perfect car, at a good price, and my car would sell so quickly to a dear friend who knows this process oh so well. She and her husband show back up at my house with the check, and I tell them about my phone call. It was so nice to have them here just after the call came. I had 4 people inquiring about that car, but God knew I needed her. They prayed with me because I was completely overwhelmed. One was going to be adjustment enough, but two? <br />
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Please pray with us as we have our interview with this couple on Wednesday. Pray that the couple would choose the other couple if we aren't to have these children. Pray for this couple, the other couple being interviewed, us, and those two babies . . . a boy and a girl. Pray for wisdom and strength for all involved. This is going to be an emotional and stressful process regardless of the outcome, but we are in awe of God's sovereignty!<br />
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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-75749362621721103442015-03-21T12:05:00.001-04:002015-03-21T12:05:56.699-04:00Adoption Journey, part 5: The Unexpected Part of the ProcessSo as we prepared ourselves for adopting we knew a lot of things because we talked to a lot of people who had been through the process. So we expected the ridiculous amount of paperwork, the excessive amounts of money, the birth mothers changing their minds, and the unbearable amount of time that many adoptive parents wait until they are paired with a child. So I prepared myself when I found out that a birth mother was considering putting her child up for adoption. I did everything I could to not get excited, not think about what it would be like, not ask if the child was a boy or a girl, black, white, red, yellow, green, healthy, drug addicted, or when they were due because it was not yet my child. I have no right to do that to that baby, birth mother, or us. That is a lot of unnecessary emotional stress on everyone. I have been doing copious amounts of paperwork for grants. I haven't put a nursery together, though we do have a room set aside for the nursery, because the child may be a day old, or 9 months old, or 3 years old . . . they have very different needs. So I have protected my heart to not have any of those things. <br />
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The part that did surprise me however was the number of children (of all ages) that people are bringing to my attention. In the last approximately 7 weeks of being approved to be adoptive parents, 4 serious options (two newborns and two children under age 4) have been brought to our attention, and countless other options. I was thinking these would come one at a time and with months in between them. I knew there were a lot of children out there in bad situations, but I was surprised at how many would find us. It makes the waiting a little better because it seems that at any moment, someone could call us and say, "This child is for you."<br />
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We are affirmed by so many people that they think we would be good parents. We are grateful to God for giving us such good friends that want this for us as well as putting us in places where these children are surfacing. <br />
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I have no idea when a child will be for us. There is always the small fear in the back of my mind that God wants us to endure this process to learn something, but there will never be a child. I always try to push that aside, but no one ever knows for sure. Only God knows for sure, and I need to trust that whatever He has for us is best. In the meantime, it doesn't feel like God is doing that. The little details that we see frequently, make us think that there will be a child, and it may not be as long as we thought. <br />
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<br />Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-6724800915874583692015-02-24T22:06:00.000-05:002015-02-24T22:06:14.135-05:00Gentleness of God pt. 2<div style="text-align: center;">
<b style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. </b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><br />When I think of the Fruit of the Spirit, gentleness is not one of the things that comes to mind first. Love, joy, peace, patience, self-control . . . they are always the first five that come to mind, but kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and gentleness are the four that I have to work a little harder to come up with. Gentleness is typically the last one. But as God has been teaching me about how gentle He is, it makes so much more sense how this is a key fruit of the Spirit. </span><div style="text-align: left;">
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Gentleness is an important piece to living a life that is full of the Spirit as well to understanding how to help people. Wisdom from God is gentle. Because of God, I am an edifier . . . that is my spiritual gift. I am constantly being asked for advice, for prayer, for encouragement, for a listening ear, etc. I enjoy giving those things, but I have done this without gentleness on countless occasions. <i>I want to take this opportunity to apologize to those of you whom I have given one of these things to without being gentle</i>. It is really easy to give advice and not be gentle. It is really easy to pray for someone and not be gentle. It is at these points that my pride takes over, and I am thinking more about myself than about the person in front of me. I'm human, and I am still growing. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm so glad that God is gentle with me. Now if I can just learn to be gentle with others. Please be gentle with me, and I will strive to be gentle with you.</span></div>
Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-55702278481651043952015-02-21T23:07:00.002-05:002015-02-21T23:07:29.454-05:00Gentleness of God pt. 1 <div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I don't know that many people actually teach that God is waiting to pounce on you in judgment when you sin, but I believe that developmentally speaking we tend to perceive this as we grow up in church and hear all the laws that God has. <br /> <br />We learn that we can't reach God because of our sin, and therefore, God had to prepare a way for us to reach Him through Christ's death on the cross. We learn what sin is, and we need to avoid sinning because God hates sin. He does hate sin, but He doesn't hate sinners. Why else would He have sent His son to die on the cross to provide a way to Himself if He hated us. He actually loves us and even likes us! <br /><br />Unfortunately, it is difficult for us to separate our sin from who we are as a child, and we grow up with that belief system. The reality is we are more than the sum of our behaviors. If you are a parent you get this . . . a child can do terrible things and you still love them! How much more does God love us, even when we sin. <br /> <br />This is not a license to go on sinning. What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. (Romans 6:1-2a). But it is a license to rest in the Lord's grace. He is compassionate, gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love, faithfulness, forgiving, and gentle.<br /> <br />When God showed me the depth of the pride in my life, I prayed that He would humble me without humiliating me. In retrospect, it is an interesting prayer. Some people that struggle with pride do have to be humiliated, but I have learned that that isn't His intent. He speaks to us all the time, but we have to be still enough to hear and willing enough to act. He has been gracious to me, and He continually shows me ways to learn humility without being humiliated. <br /><br />Just the other day, I was sitting amongst fellow counseling professionals at a workshop, and the conversation about ethics and other ways of dealing with clients was astounding to me. I couldn't believe the conversation that people were processing through. I was thinking, "This is common sense!" I then contributed to the conversation, and the leader of the workshop said, "That is profound." I couldn't believe she thought what I said was profound until I realized that this is just wisdom from God. "The fear of the Lord is the beginning ofknowledge; Fools despise wisdom and instruction." (Proverbs 1:7). Here I was thinking in a very condescending fashion towards my fellow professionals, and God reminded me that He gave me that wisdom. I have no right to be condescending and judgmental about that. I should take a stance of gratefulness for what He has taught me, and love for those who do not know Him and thus don't have the understanding that He gave me. Wisdom only comes to those who fear the Lord first. So seek hard after Him, this is the beginning of wisdom. Give credit where credit is due . . . to Him and Him alone. "For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be the glory forever. Amen." (Romans 11:36)<br /><br />I tell you this story because of how gently God rebuked my pride. He didn't beat me over the head. He didn't humiliate me in front of my peers. He spoke in a still small voice. Listen closely to our gentle God. He isn't waiting for you to mess up so He can just pounce on you. </span><img src="http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/haveamagnificentday/files/2013/11/gentle-wind.jpg" /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /><br /><i>"The Lord said, 'Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of theLord, for the Lord is about to pass by.' Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper."</i> (I Kings 19:11-12)</span>Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-63706721925062625642015-02-07T11:20:00.002-05:002015-02-07T11:20:53.468-05:00Adoption Journey, part 4: And we are on the list . . . After months of filling out paperwork and jumping through hoops, we are finally on a list that will have our profile shown to birth mothers. The last step was a photo book describing our life. <br />
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I was a bit frustrated as I wasn't told about it until the day before we moved into our new house. I could have been working on it for months, but she neglected to tell me until then. If you know us at all, then you know when we moved into our house it immediately became a construction zone as we are doing extensive remodeling. I knew it was going to be a while until I was able to work on the book, and it was. The renovations in our house are going slowly due to Miles' health and uncommonly increased real estate business for the months of January and February. Increased business is great; I am not complaining! I have learned alot about letting God time things out though.<br />
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God knew that the lady wasn't going to tell me about the book until the day she did. God knew that Miles' health would take a bit of a dive. God is the One Who brings business to us. God knew the renovations would take longer than we anticipated due to all of those things. The child that we are supposed to have will not be deterred by these things. God is not bound by seemingly poor timing. He is in control of everything. We need not worry. <br />
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Anyway, with the help of some friends and family, I got the photo book completed (with 2 minor errors I might add . . . it doesn't sit well with my slightly OCD personality :)). I shipped two to me, and one to the agency. They emailed me on Thursday to tell me that they received the book. They also told me that our home study addendum, that needs to be completed because we moved since our original home study, will not keep her from showing our profile to birth mothers. I was very relieved by that! Miles unfortunately was panicked because we have two stud walls with hot wires on them and a set of open stairs into the basement . . . things that will not pass a home study addendum. It will get done. I'm not worried. We have both been reminded over the last couple of months how God is in control of everything. Worry does nothing but waste your time and energy. <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0u0y7vXqVvy9FJv9nwkKvWUHCOdQfNNwKF9pvYJ1YJ5Dwvy2vktJD26poO7S3L-kAmCc57Uumlny-if4R3BhmmvCig1M75C6eCd-EhaSSjbTsU3X0AALvqnVbduwg9jJ6P5HSAr2YQGjM/s1600/family+waterfall.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0u0y7vXqVvy9FJv9nwkKvWUHCOdQfNNwKF9pvYJ1YJ5Dwvy2vktJD26poO7S3L-kAmCc57Uumlny-if4R3BhmmvCig1M75C6eCd-EhaSSjbTsU3X0AALvqnVbduwg9jJ6P5HSAr2YQGjM/s1600/family+waterfall.jpg" height="320" width="180" /></a>We covet your prayers above everything else during this process. Please pray with us about several things:<br />
1. Pray that we will continue to be patient and trust God during this process. We could literally receive a phone call today saying we have a baby, come pick them up today; or it could be years until a call comes. The limbo is difficult.<br />
2. Pray for Miles' health to improve. <br />
3. Pray for the birth moms' out there that are making the difficult decision to give up their children. <br />
4. Pray for the child that God has picked out for us. Pray for his/her protection in utero and out. <br />
5. Pray for progress on our renovation. <br />
6. Pray for business for Miles' to help pay for the renovations and the adoption. <br />
7. Pray for funding for the adoption. It is a very expensive process. If you would like to help us financially to fund this adoption, below is the link to our gofund me page. <br />
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http://www2.snapfish.com/snapfish/projectshareewelcome/l=21981999007/p=261971423325188241/g=79175346/cobrandOid=1000/COBRAND_NAME=snapfish/otsc=SYE/otsi=SPBKlink/<br />
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Now that this unforeseen piece is completed, time to start applying for grants. <br />
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<br />Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-64988156520318703142014-12-21T15:17:00.003-05:002014-12-21T15:17:58.563-05:00Adoption Journey, pt 3. Finalization of the Home StudyAfter some delays (that I understand are oh so very common in adoption processes), our homestudy is in our hands now. It is complete . . . that is until we have to do an addendum in January after we get moved into our new home. <br />
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I imagine that this process is going to really become difficult now as we wait. Waiting is always the hardest. At least prior to this document being completed, I was following up on paperwork and such. It was also really nice to have the distractions of selling a house, buying a car, buying a house, end of semester work influx, and Christmas festivities.<br />
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So December 29, if all goes well, we will sell our house at noon, and buy another house at 2pm. The new house and yard are much more conducive to having children. The yard is relatively flat, and it doesn't empty into a major road. There are four bedrooms and lots of living space. When we move in, the house will instantly become a construction zone, as we have alot of updating to do. We won't do all of it when we move in, but we will be doing a very large portion of it when we move in. This will probably help the waiting process, but having all of that space will increase my desire to share it with a child(ren).<br />
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If you want to know more about the homestudy process, I found that these websites were pretty helpful.<br />
http://www.adoptionhomestudyreport.com/<br />
https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/f_homstu.cfm<br />
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Now on to distributing the homestudy and applying for adoption grants . . .<br />
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<br />Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-10596737752033523562014-11-10T21:33:00.001-05:002014-11-10T21:33:29.745-05:00Adoption Journey, pt. 2: The Home StudyThis is the part of the adoption process that was really unknown to us. The descriptions were very vague, and depending on who you adopt through the process can vary some. Our experience was not only good, but it was actually enjoyable. <br />
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Kristy was the name of our home study examiner (I'm not really sure what her official title is). She was extremely pleasant and easy to talk to. For our first meeting, she actually came to my office at work, and she only met with me. She just wanted to get to know me and our story a little bit. She asked some questions about me and about why we wanted to adopt. She answered my questions like what the process looks like and what things we need to have for the home inspection. She told us that the home inspection is such a minor part of the home study, especially for adoption. If you are doing foster care, than there is a list of things you have to have in your home to meet the expectations outlined by the state. She never really did give me a list, but she recommended a carbon monoxide alarm and a fire extinguisher. <br />
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For our second meeting, about a week later, she came to our house. She met Miles and talked with us as a couple: How do we resolve conflict, how do we communicate, how do we anticipate sharing parenting responsibilities, what is our philosophy on parenting, how do we anticipate handling some of the awkward situations that may arise when people find out that our child is adopted, what have read, what kind of support system do we have. She interviewed Miles thoroughly. She wanted to know his life story, so she met with him for over an hour while I went to another room. She has excellent counseling skills, as she was a superb listener and conversationalist. She actually acted interested in our stories ;) She looked over our house to see what the layout was, where were the fire extinguishers, and how would we protect our child from the chemicals stored under the sink. We didn't even have to have anything in place; she just wanted to know what our plan was. Where would the child sleep? If we adopted tomorrow, what would we do about the minor construction zone that we were living in? (We were doing some remodeling to put our house on the market.) What kinds of safety measures would be needed (e.g. cabinet door locks)? <br />
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The next week, she met with just me again at my office, as she wanted to hear my life story. It was kind of fun to tell. You don't get many times in your life to just talk about yourself, and people be that interested. She asked questions about my upbringing, my siblings, my parents, my adolescence, my interests, my education, my work life, etc. It was actually really fun. <br />
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I truly hope that God will give us a child through this process, but God has done many things in my life that are not in line with <u>my</u> dreams. I used to resent God for this. I took on the martyr syndrome. I found myself being very selfish asking God why He didn't ever give me what I want. He seems to give everyone else what they want! There is a verse that I learned many years ago, and I often hear it used incorrectly.<br />
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<i>Delight yourself in the Lord; and He will give you the desires of your heart.</i> <span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 37:4</span><br />
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People miss the first part. When you delight yourself in the Lord, He will give you the desires of your heart. He will give you the proper things to desire. Just because you really want a child, doesn't mean that you are going to get one. But if you delight yourself in Him and the things that He values, I assure you, He will give you the things that HE has caused you to desire. Many times we seek Him, but we still hold on to our desires. We need to align ourselves with Him and His desires. Because God has taught me this over and over, I am finally learning that contentment only comes from aligning yourself with God. He is the source of joy . . . not marriage, not children, not a new car or house, not success, not friends . . . ONLY Him. If you can't find contentment in Him, you won't be content with anything. <br />
I say all of this to say that God knows what is best for Miles & Liz Moseley. Miles is 41, and I am nearly 38. We are a bit old to be starting a family. We look around at families with young children, and realize that we are nearly twice their age sometimes. We are old enough to have children in college, but God has chosen to not give us children yet. During my struggle with not having children, God told me that He gave me lots of children . . . they just aren't small . . . they are students at Cleveland State and Lee University, employees at Starbucks and Panera, and youth group students, etc. Maybe that is all God has for us, but for now this is the journey we are taking.<br />
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So now we are waiting. Kristy told us it would be 2-3 weeks until the home study document was completed and returned to us for review. Three weeks is in two days . . . we'll see how it goes. <br />
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This is an expensive process. It isn't like having a baby where insurance pays for much of it. We have to pay it all. It will be around $11K. It could cost upwards of $18K, and there is a small possibility that it could cost less. <br />
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If you would like to help us, you can donate through this link: <span style="background-color: #edf0f5; color: #666666; font-family: lato, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 18px; text-align: center;">http://www.gofundme.com/gr2e5s</span><br />
<br />Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-13166975275205396692014-10-30T18:50:00.001-04:002014-10-30T18:50:24.528-04:00Adoption Journey, Part 1: Why Adoption?<div style="text-align: left;">
<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I am going to take detour from my typical blogs, to answer a request from some of my friends. I have had a few friends ask me to blog about our adoption journey. So here I go :)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This is what we want to do for another child. We want to help a child that could not help themselves because this is where I was in standing before God. I could do nothing to help myself. I was at the mercy of God Almighty, and He chose me! I want to choose a child, and give them a life that will be more stable. Life in Christ is much more stable than life away from Him. I can't imagine how depressing and meaningless life would be without Him. Knowing that I am loved by Him and that He gives me meaning, keeps me from losing hope. He is my hope! Being able to help a child who has no hope, and give them a stable life of love and security based in the love that I enjoy in Christ will be a dream come true. I want nothing more than to have a child come live with us, and walk away when they become an adult knowing Christ and being a witness for Him because of their personal story . . . not because of us.<br /> <br />So for us, it is something that we have felt called to do. Little did we know that it would actually be our only option physically (at </span><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">least according to medical doctors who really don't know; only God really knows.) </span><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Miles' health has been progressively getting worse since the mid 90s. We have been to countless doctors, and no one really knows. They know his body is having an auto-immune response, but they don't know why or what. After getting to a point where he was nearly bed-ridden, we gave up on doctors and started changing the way he ate . . . drastically. He has gotten much better, but fertility doctors told us that his health had damaged his sperm. We probably will never have children. This was devastating news, as it was a dream that both of us had had for years. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">During this time, we learned much about God. We learned that His plan is perfect. We learned that He carries us. We learned that God is bigger than anything else on earth. We learned that His love for us is all that is important. We learned that following Him is all that matters. We need to live with eternity in mind. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />I prayed for children for years. I watched as girls who should never have children (in my human opinion) get pregnant every time they had sex. Seriously God, she has had 3 children in under 3 years! God, this girl is a drunk, and you have given her 4 children. I just don't understand. He reassured me that I could trust His plan. He told me that He gave me children. He told me to love His children, regardless of age. I work with college students all week long that need parental figures. I watch other people's children that need help. I teach students all year long how to properly care for their own children. This is what God has called us to do. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />Until July . . . When Miles told me that it was time. He had been praying about it. Miles' health had greatly improved, but he wasn't expecting to ever be well. We need to proceed with adoption now, if we are going to do it. So we talked with friends who have done international adoptions, private adoptions, foster care adoptions, and agency adoptions. We even considered IVF one more time. We left the consultation for IVF in agreement that we needed to just go the adoption route. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />After praying through these options, we met with two adoption agencies: Harmony Family Center (Knoxville, TN) and Bethany Christian Services (Chattanooga, TN). <br />We connected very well with the lady at Harmony. She was very helpful. She also told us that an adoption would cost anywhere from $11K on the low end to $17-18K on the high end. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />We went to Bethany's information meeting, and we didn't feel comfortable from the beginning. Nothing seemed to fit well. This is nothing negative about Bethany. They do a great work all over the world. They prepare everyone very thoroughly (maybe too thoroughly for us, if that is possible). The last thing that helped us choose Harmony was that Bethany has a flat fee of $18K. Then there are some other fees like attorneys and adoption finalization on top of the $18K. </span><br />
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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-73367174937464533222014-09-01T11:20:00.001-04:002014-09-01T11:20:27.161-04:00Beauty for Ashes<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It is a phrase I have heard often over my life, but I have been heavily impressed with God's ability to bring beauty out of ashes this week. Sin, disappointment, divorce, sickness, brokenness, disillusionment, infertility, violence, etc, have been everywhere around me this week. Here is what Scripture says about it in a prophecy about Jesus:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Isaiah 61:1-3"<i>The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the LORD's favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion--to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor.</i>" (NIV)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Jesus came to provide a way for us to be with Him. Our sin blocks us from being able to know Him, but Jesus paid for our sin. So in this passage, as it talks about the devastating situation that we are in--brokenhearted, captives, in darkness, prisoners, mourning, despair--He brings beauty, joy, and praise. </span><br />
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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-9929324858048339182014-03-15T12:31:00.001-04:002014-03-15T12:31:59.802-04:00Peace<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The other day I was sitting on my couch doing something, I have no recollection of what right now. I sensed a bit of angst in my spirit, but I wasn't sure what the root was. The verse above came to mind, and as I mulled it over the angst disappeared. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The point that the Lord confirmed in my soul this week is the power of His Word. When we read, apply, and believe His word, the peace that overcomes us is only of Him. So this morning, I read through Psalm 119 to remind myself about the power of His word. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;"><i>My soul cleaves to the dust; Revive me according to Your word. </i>(vs. 25)</span></span></div>
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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-56586647555151794972014-01-01T15:00:00.002-05:002014-01-01T15:06:42.095-05:00Self-Control<div style="text-align: center;">
Self-Control: "restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires" (m-w.com)</div>
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As a new year begins, we all see commercials/advertising for ways to lose weight, eat better, work out more, diet pills, gym memberships, cardio machines, Weight Watchers, athletic exercise apparel, etc. It seems a bit ridiculous, but even though many people don't hold to these things, they do try. They do typically have success at least for a few days. I appreciate that people at least want to do a little better. <br />
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2013 was not the most pleasant of years, but it certainly wasn't the most difficult. Miles health has been a little better. Work has been more stressful. Max has brought us much fun and laughter. Friends and family struggle. Two credit cards were paid off. God has taught us very much, and I do believe the root has been self-control. <br />
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The other night, I saw bits and pieces of "Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead" on HLN. It is an excellent documentary on obesity. I hope to soon find time to watch it in its entirety. We as a nation are so concerned about how a food makes us feel that we don't even have the self-control to eat what will help us. We will eat ourselves to death . . . literally. <br />
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Though I struggle some with self-control, I know that my temperament is more self-controlled than the average person, as I recall my childhood. My mom would give me $1 a week to buy a $0.20 ice cream each day at lunch. If I wanted to save the money, I could. I went years in elementary school with no ice cream at lunch, because I knew that I could save the money and go on vacation to the beach with alot of money in the summer. My mom almost felt bad for me because I was one of the very few kids that didn't have ice cream at lunch. I saw the benefits of delayed gratification at a young age. <br />
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If you aren't familiar with the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment, you need to search for videos about it. A child is put in a room with a marshmallow. They are told that they can eat the marshmallow. The other option is for them to wait as the researcher leaves the room and then returns. If they wait until the researcher returns to the room, and they haven't eaten their marshmallow, they will be given another marshmallow. So eat immediately and enjoy one, or don't eat now, but eat two later. Kids were licking the marshmallow, they were turning their heads away from the marshmallow, etc . . . very funny videos! They found that the children that could delay gratification were more successful in life. They could see the value of controlling themselves to wait in the face of not being happy in the moment. <br />
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As Americans, we are all about doing what feels good, and it has resulted in a lot of problems: poor health, obesity, out of control children, bullying, disrespect of people, dropping out of school, failure, misery, falling away from God. Self-control is a struggle for everyone, but it is crucial to life in this world and the one to come. <br />
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<em><span class="text Gal-5-22" id="en-NASB-29185">But <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29185AQ" title="See cross-reference AQ">AQ</a>)"></sup>the fruit of the Spirit is <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29185AR" title="See cross-reference AR">AR</a>)"></sup>love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,</span> <span class="text Gal-5-23" id="en-NASB-29186">gentleness, <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29186AS" title="See cross-reference AS">AS</a>)"></sup>self-control; against such things <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29186AT" title="See cross-reference AT">AT</a>)"></sup>there is no law. </span><span class="text Gal-5-24" id="en-NASB-29187"><sup class="versenum"> </sup>Now those who belong to <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29187AU" title="See cross-reference AU">AU</a>)"></sup>Christ Jesus have <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29187AV" title="See cross-reference AV">AV</a>)"></sup>crucified the flesh with its passions and <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29187AW" title="See cross-reference AW">AW</a>)"></sup>desires.</span> <span class="text Gal-5-25" id="en-NASB-29188">If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29188AX" title="See cross-reference AX">AX</a>)"></sup>by the Spirit.</span> <span class="text Gal-5-26" id="en-NASB-29189"><sup class="versenum"> </sup>Let us not become <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29189AY" title="See cross-reference AY">AY</a>)"></sup>boastful, challenging one another, envying one another. (Galatians 6:22-26)</span></em><br />
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Though self-control comes more easily to some (as do other parts of the fruit of the Spirit), self-control is a result of living in the Spirit. It is crucifying the flesh, and living by the Spirit. It is about the change the Christ makes in us when we live in the Spirit. <br />
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As a child, I was able to sit next to my classmates all year long as they ate ice cream and not buy any because my eye was on the prize: Having a large amount of money to buy something bigger when I went on vacation. Miles was able to cut all of those things out of his diet because his eye was on the prize: Better health. Parents that have the self-control and discipline to inflict temporary pain (time-out, spanking, not getting what they want) on their children are able to do this because they have their eye on the prize: Respectful, independent, and well-adjusted children.<br />
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So this year, make a resolution to keep your eye on the prize: Christ,<br />
<em>Therefore if you have been <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29519A" title="See cross-reference A">A</a>)"></sup>raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29519B" title="See cross-reference B">B</a>)"></sup>seated at the right hand of God. S<span class="text Col-3-2" id="en-NASB-29520">et your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.</span> <span class="text Col-3-3" id="en-NASB-29521">For you have <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29521D" title="See cross-reference D">D</a>)"></sup>died and your life is hidden with Christ in God. Colossians 3:1-3</span></em><br />
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The prize is Christ . . . the self-control is: abiding in Him, being grateful, choosing to love people, forgiving, etc, etc.Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-74890785239376086432013-11-20T18:17:00.001-05:002013-11-20T18:30:46.512-05:00HolocaustHolocaust: "any mass slaughter or reckless destruction of life" (<a href="http://www.dictionary.com/">www.dictionary.com</a>)<br />
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Last evening, I had the fascinating opportunity to listen to Esther Bauer speak about her survival of the holocaust. Her story puts flesh on the horrific events that happened in Europe during World War 2 by Nazi Germany. Though she admits, her story isn't nearly as horrific as many that she has encountered or we have heard, it is still incredible to think about the compartmentalization that this woman had to do to survive such heinous events. She spoke of the events in a very matter of fact tone, almost as if she was watching the events take place but not experiencing them. As a person who has studied psychology extensively and been a counselor for several years, I can understand that this is sometimes necessary to survive events like these. I value the time I had listening to this nearly 90 year old woman speak first-hand of these events. <br />
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When she completed her story, she asked if there were any questions. One young woman asked her something along the lines of, "Did these events affect your faith in God?" And her response (as close as I can remember) was gut-wrenching or gut-punching to use a word from my author friend. "I am an atheist. If I thought there was a God that would allow all of those horrible things to occur, then I would have to kill myself. There's just good people and bad people. That's what I think." There was silence . . . so many impressionable minds in the room and such bitterness. To have lived a life of such unforgiveness also helps me understand why she had to compartmentalize so much. <br />
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Please don't get me wrong. I don't blame her for her feeling that way--that is a natural human response. She has every "right" humanly speaking to feel that way. <br />
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The instant I heard her statement, God immediately impressed on me to pray for protection for the impressionable minds in the room and then more importantly, that Esther Bauer would know true liberation in her life. She is physically liberated, but emotionally and spiritually in bondage. <br />
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I don't want this blog to be an attack on Esther Bauer; it is not my intention at all! What I do want you to remember is <strong><em><u>Forgiveness</u></em></strong>. God forgave us all for far more than Esther Bauer endured. While hanging on a cross, suffering the most grueling and cruel death, He said, "Father, forgive them because they do not know what they are doing." (Luke 23:34) We are the ones that put Him on the cross. If we were not sinners, then He would not have had to endure that . . . and yet, He chose to. We must forgive all the time . . . not just for our own sanity, but because He gave us the opportunity to accept His forgiveness of so much more.<br />
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Secondly, I want you to hear that things like the holocaust have happened all throughout history. Read the Old Testament. Sometimes God had the Israelites slaughtering people, and sometimes God had other people slaughtering the Israelites. It was all in His plan. He has a reason for everything that He allows. We have a hard time with this because we can't think from an eternal, all-knowing perspective . . . we can only see ourselves. It doesn't make sense to us, so we reject God. He knows that many will reject Him. <strong><em><u>His eternal purposes do not align with our human purposes/understanding</u></em></strong>. Even in my comments above, why did God allow sin? <em>Maybe</em> so we could learn to forgive others through modeling. (I don't claim to know God's purpose in anything, it is just my finite mind trying to understand.)<br />
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I am sure that I have offended someone, and I hope you aren't offended to the degree that you won't at least consider what I have said. I have done a lot of studying of Scripture, and God has taught me a great deal during my short life. This is what I understand. You are free to disagree with me, but as Esther Bauer said last night, "You can believe what you want, but this is how I believe."<br />
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(Side note: Read some books by Viktor Frankl or Corrie Ten Boom or Deitrich Bonhoeffer to see how some people grew in their faith as a result of their experiences in the holocaust.)Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-83791006288956046622013-08-10T11:06:00.001-04:002013-08-10T11:06:08.820-04:00And the Pendulum Swings . . .I grew up in a pretty legalistic environment. Everything was wrong from music that had emphasis on the wrong beat to skirts that were above the middle of the knee. Strict, blind obedience was highly valued, asking questions to understand was rebellion. So I played along, and I pleased the people. The problem with this was that the goal they were shooting for was pleasing God. I don't blame the environment too much because they were trying to create an environment safe from sin. Unfortunately, God is concerned about our hearts. He wants the behavior to be a result of a heart change not a rule change. <br />
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When I moved to South Florida, I <u>began</u> to understand the freedom of grace and how much God loves me. Without realizing it, I had developed an understanding of God being this big guy in the sky who loved me so much that He was waiting for me to step out of line so He could punish me. I began to learn that God really does love me. He wasn't waiting for me to step out of line so He could punish me. I began to grow in the knowledge of God's love for me.<br />
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And the pendulum began to swing . . . I went from a god waiting to punish my every move to a god that doesn't really care what I do. It is funny how when the pendulum begins to swing, it is hard to stop it in the middle. So it swung hard to the other side.<br />
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Over time, God has shown me that He truly does love me. He is more concerned about my heart motives than my actions . . . however, my heart motives will control my actions. He is concerned about my heart motives and the actions that result. My pride will make me do things that seem good on the surface but are extremely fleshly . . . for instance, all of those years of following all the rules. I wanted people to think highly of me, so I followed the rules: pride. I looked good to everyone around me, but it was all rooted in pride. <br />
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The truth that I have to remember is: GOD HATES SIN. He cannot coexist with it. He loved us so much, that He sent His son not only to die a painful death, but more importantly, to take on the sin of all mankind for all time. He separated Himself from His son. He put on His son the one thing that could separate them . . . so He could make a way for us sinful people to be with Him. Jesus wasn't so concerned with the pain and agony of dying on a wooden cross (lesser men have sung praises to God as they were martyred). He asked for the "cup to pass" (Matthew 26:39) to not have to be separated from His Father. He knew what that really meant (Matthew 27:45-46). We don't get it. <br />
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Side note: As I looked for a picture of Christ on the cross, many of the pictures were gorgeous with sunsets and beautiful clouds. This painting seemed more realistic. The sky was black in the middle of the day, and I often associate God's anger with thunder and lightning (though not necessarily; just an association that many of us make).<br />
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We sin and think little of it. Every time we sin, we should remember that Christ died and was separated from God for that "little white lie" or that slandering of another person or that envious heart, etc. <br />
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So what is my bottom line? We serve a God Who loves us and demands holiness. The love isn't all feel good, flowers, chocolate, cuddling . . . it is the deepest form of love there is. Don't make God's love out to be similar to the way I love Reese's Peanut Butter cups or the way we see love on tv. It isn't the same, but He does love you so much that He made a way for you to be with Him.<br />
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May you know the love of God more and more today and for eternity . . .Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-37535060657585633442013-06-20T18:27:00.000-04:002013-06-20T18:27:26.855-04:00FearI was talking to some friends on Sunday, and they were telling me a story about having a "funeral" for their bug that died. The little boy told me he read a bible verse, and I asked him which one. He said, "2 Timothy 1:7." Knowing that verse very well, because I have needed it so much, I asked him, "What does that verse say?" He said, " 2 Timothy 1:7, For God has not given us a <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-29817R" title="See cross-reference R">R</a>)"></sup>spirit of fear, but of power and love and sound mind." I smiled as I enjoyed watching a young child remember God's Word. It will probably stick with him for life. <br />
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On Tuesday, we had some men come to put a new roof on our house. I knew it was going to be loud, but I figured we would get used to it. I never anticipated how much it would affect my dog, Max. Now, you must understand we don't have children, and Max is our baby. We tried desperately to calm him down as he barked and jumped at every noise. He eventually stopped barking, but he had to be touching me or Miles, and his eyes and ears spoke volumes. He was scared to death. He couldn't relax. He was in a constant state of fear. I hated watching the fear in his eyes. It pained me to see that he couldn't relax. So we spent the rest of the day and half of Wednesday trying to find places to take him where he could keep cool and be relaxed. Poor guy was so exhausted on Tuesday night that he slept 12 hours straight! <br />
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It is amazing how fear can wear us out. It is amazing how it can paralyze us. What amazed me even more than that was how much I hated seeing it in my helpless dog's eyes. He couldn't understand, and I hurt for him. This is just me and my dog. I am certain this would be so much worse if it was your child. <br />
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So I come back to 2 Timothy 1:7 . . . If I can't handle seeing fear in my dog, or a child, imagine how God feels. He gave us the answer to fear because fear doesn't come from Him, and many times we ignore what He has given us. It must grieve Him so much!<br />
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God has given us power. ". . . Greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world." (I Jn 4:4) Believers have the ultimate power residing within them. God has given us love through His son. "Greater love has no one than this, that One lay down His life for His friends." (Jn 15:13) He has given us the greatest example of love. God gave us a sound mind. ". . . be transformed by the renewing of your mind." (Rom. 12:2). He gave us a mind that can think clearly and rationally and with faith, and we can be transformed by it. <br />
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So use those resources to fight off fear. Fear is not from Him, and I am sure it grieves Him to see us in fear. We should realize we are safe and have nothing to fear when our faith is in Him. <br />
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Geocentrism . . . the theory that the earth is the center of the universe. It seemed to make sense at the time. The sun rises and sets on the earth each day. This theory was gradually proven wrong in the 16th century as we began to realize that the earth actually revolves around the sun which is heliocentrism. Some things made much more sense when they realized that the sun is the center of the universe instead of the earth.</div>
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Egocentric . . . everything is about me and originates with me. We are all, by nature, egocentric, I am the center of the universe. We look at everything from our perspective. How does this event, comment, person, truth, etc. affect me? <br />
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<em>One of the reasons it is hard to communicate biblical reality to modern, secular people is that the biblical mindset and the secular mindset move from radically different starting points. </em></div>
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<em>What I mean by the secular mindset is not necessarily a mindset that rules God out or denies in principle that the Bible is true. It's a mindset that begins with man as the basic given reality in the universe. All of its thinking starts with the assumption that man has basic rights and basic needs and basic expectations. Then the secular mind moves out from this center and interprets the world, with man and his rights and needs as the measure of all things. <span style="font-size: x-small;">*(Piper, 2012)</span></em></div>
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We, believers and unbelievers alike, need to understand that it isn't about us at all. It is all about God & His glory. It is often difficult for us to accept things that we read in Scripture or that we see God doing around us, because we can't understand why God would allow that to happen to us or to our country. We need to realize that things don't work out from an egocentric perspective, only from a Theocentric perspective . . . God is the center and Originator of all things. Everything is about Him. </div>
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Allow God to be your point of reference this year . . . things will make alot more sense.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">*Piper, J. (2012) Did Christ Die for Us or for God. </span><a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/"><span style="font-size: x-small;">desiringgod.org</span></a>Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-31570361524065789252012-12-30T00:13:00.002-05:002012-12-30T00:13:49.681-05:00Christmastime in Tennessee<div style="text-align: center;">
Immanuel . . . God with us. (Matt. 1:23)</div>
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The Word became flesh and dwelt among us. (Jn. 1:14)</div>
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This Christmas was the first time Miles & I were able to be in our home for Christmas day. We are typically in Pennsylvania my family, but this year my family celebrated a few days early. So we came home to TN looking to start some of our own traditions. It was a little last minute to find a copy of The Nativity Story to watch on Christmas Eve, so we intend to do that in the future. <br />
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Christmas morning we got up and read the Christmas story from Scripture. The only tradition we were certain we wanted to have was to be sure that the day started with the reason for the celebration. So Miles slowly read from Luke & Matthew as we took in the story again. There were a few things that caught our attention this year . . .<br />
1. The story is often depicted that Mary & Joseph arrive in Bethlehem, and Jesus is born that night. This may have happened, but it doesn't say that. They could have been in town a few days. The census was taking place, so Bethlehem may have been without a place to stay for several nights. <br />
2. The story is often depicted with an innkeeper taking Mary & Joseph to a stable, but that isn't actually stated in Scripture. There wasn't room in the inn, so Mary & Joseph had to find a place to stay. Now the innkeeper may have done so, but we didn't see it in Scripture. <br />
3. The story is often depicted with a star over the manger, but the star led the wisemen not the shepherds. Who knows when the star actually appeared. In Luke 2:12, the shepherds were told that they sign will be finding a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger not to follow a star. (And a common misconception is that the wise men were at the birth, but they didn't show up for awhile.)<br />
#1 & 2 are more just speculation . . . but #3 was most interesting to us. <br />
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I hope that as you had time off work, as you shopped, purchased, and opened gifts, as you and your families spent time together this Christmas that you took time to reflect on the King of Kings, the Son of the almighty, eternal God, being born in a dirty manger to poor, young, and inexperienced people willing to submit themselves to being used for God's purposes. I love that God used them . . . His story is full of people the weak, uneducated, poor, submissive, and willing being used in great ways to carry out God's plan. It takes alot of pressure off! <br />
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Merry Christmas!<br />
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Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-18298428294630534522012-11-20T15:24:00.000-05:002012-11-20T15:24:18.673-05:00Unconditional LoveSo it has been a crazy few months, as you can see I haven't blogged since July 24th. There have been many things going on and many lessons being learned. I will just share one with you. In August, we brought in a new member to our family: Max, our Lhasa Poo. He is about 7 months old, and he has brought alot of fun into our home. I have been told many times that pets become a part of the family, but I had no idea until we brought Max home. He is my baby. <br />
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Max is my little shadow. If I go to the bedroom, he is right next to me. If I get a shower, he lays on the floor next to the shower until I get out. If I am making dinner, he is sitting under my feet (figuratively) or on my feet (literally). Sometimes it can be really dangerous. I have tripped over him and onto him which can hurt both of us. Sometimes it is just annoying. I'm trying to make dinner, and he is under my feet. One day, I felt him sitting on my feet as I was washing the dishes, and I was hindered from moving because he was on my feet. I was about to yell at him to move, and God spoke to me. "He loves you."<br />
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As I thought about it, I realized that Max loves me unconditionally. It doesn't matter if I have just yelled at him, fed him, took him to be neutered; he can't wait to be near me. He trusts me whether he is asleep in my lap (as seen above) or freaking out at the vet in my arms. It reminded me of my relationship with God. He will shine His grace on me, and as long as it is pleasant, I'm grateful. But if it is painful or difficult or trying, I have a much harder time being grateful or feeling loved. I don't love God unconditionally (at least in a practical sense). I don't want to be near Him all the time. If I wanted to be with God half as much as Max wants to be with me, I would be doing well. <br />
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On the other hand, I'm so glad that God loves me like Max loves me. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, but He longs to be with me. He is excited when I talk with Him. He sings over me. He wants to spend time with me. <br />
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Unconditional Love . . . Do you love God like Max loves me? Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-49051377234747268392012-07-24T16:37:00.000-04:002012-07-24T16:37:09.111-04:00Journey to ContentmentLet me preface this blog with a disclaimer . . . My thought processes are very clear to me, but I won't be surprised if they are unclear to you. Please feel free to ask if you don't understand me. <br />
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I have spent a good portion of the summer helping a pregnant teenager manage the craziness that life brings as a mother approaches giving birth, delivering the baby, and adjusting to life at home. The teenager who longs to be married with a family, wonders why she made these choices; for me, being someone that has longed to be a mother for many years, this was an bittersweet experience. I saw my first live ultrasound and the miracle of birth which I am still in awe of the God I serve from that experience. It will be an experience that I will never forget. I am forever grateful to God for allowing me to witness these things. God amazingly made this experience mostly sweet, though I could have wasted much time in the bitter. Why does God allow teenagers who don't want to be pregnant to get pregnant, when so many married people long to be parents and aren't able to be parents?<br />
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I used to be stumped by this and other questions, but God has begun to teach me this summer about expectations and entitlement. The natural progression is get married and have children. I often see Christians ask single people, "Why aren't you married yet?" (As if they are less than normal because they aren't married.) Am I better than another person and therefore deserve to be a parent more than others? (And my ugly pride surfaces in entitlement.) This "natural" progression may not necessarily be what God has for each person, and that doesn't make them any less of a person or any less valuable. I don't think anyone would say that, but that is the message that is communicated to the person who isn't married or without children. <br />
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For fear of this being a blog that is too long, I am going to try cut to my bottom line here. Life is not about our expectations or sense of entitlement. Bottom line . . . my life is not about ME. The US has created a culture of entitlement, and it has creeped into Christianity. I expect and am entitled to have children, good health, a husband, a full time, good paying job. God doesn't promise any of these things. He promises us Himself. He promises that He will meet our needs. He promises that trials and tribulations will make us more like Him. When we evaluate our expectations and entitlements in light of God and His Will, our expectations and entitlements must die. </div>
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We think that being married should be an expectation, but Paul talks about it being better to be single than married because you can focus on the Lord instead of your spouse. (I Corinthians 7:8) I think the same applies to children. Because I don't have children, I am free to focus on the Lord and the ministry that He has to be done. Poor health and poor paying jobs keeps us humble and dependent on the Lord instead of self-sufficient and prideful. <br />
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I'll end with a verse that a friend shared with me today, and that was such an encouragement: <em>For the <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span> God is <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-15271A" title="See cross-reference A">A</a>)"></sup> a sun and <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-15271B" title="See cross-reference B">B</a>)"></sup> shield; <span class="text Ps-84-11">The <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span> gives grace and <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-15271C" title="See cross-reference C">C</a>)"></sup> glory; </span><span class="text Ps-84-11"><strong>No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly.</strong> Psalm 84:11. </span></em><br />
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<span class="text Ps-84-11">She quoted this verse, and God said to me, "See . . . I told you that I wouldn't withhold any good thing from those who walk uprightly. You walk uprightly, and I'll give you everything that is good for you. Obviously, having a husband in good health, or having children are not good for you right now. You may think they are, but they are not. Trust Me." I need to rest there . . . in Him. </span><br />
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<span class="text Ps-84-11">So remember that God's goals are the only ones that lead us to contentment. Evaluate your expectations in light of Scripture, and you will see the road to contentment as you let go of your self-centered goals. </span>Liz Moseleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04472504119929884466noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6284780570925165605.post-17107509475968064542012-05-31T21:33:00.000-04:002012-05-31T21:33:28.209-04:00LoveI've been spending a week or so contemplating love. Not romantic love or even love of a child . . . but agape love . . . godly love. The fruit of the Spirit is what God was bringing to mind for me to really mull over, but I have gotten stuck on love. <br />
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This kind of love is difficult. It is unnatural. Which is why we can't conjure it up. This kind of love is a result of living in the Spirit. <br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="text Matt-5-43"><span class="woj"><sup>43</sup>“You have heard that it was said, ‘ <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-23278BE" title="See cross-reference BE">BE</a>)"></sup> <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">You shall love your neighbor</span><sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-23278BF" title="See cross-reference BF">BF</a>)"></sup> and hate your enemy.’</span></span> <span class="text Matt-5-44" id="en-NASB-23279"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">44 </sup>But I say to you, <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-23279BG" title="See cross-reference BG">BG</a>)"></sup> love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,</span></span> <span class="text Matt-5-45" id="en-NASB-23280"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">45 </sup>so that you may be <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-23280BH" title="See cross-reference BH">BH</a>)"></sup> sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on <i>the</i> evil and <i>the</i> good, and sends rain on <i>the</i> righteous and <i>the</i> unrighteous.</span></span> <span class="text Matt-5-46" id="en-NASB-23281"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">46 </sup>For <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-23281BI" title="See cross-reference BI">BI</a>)"></sup> if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same?</span></span> <span class="text Matt-5-47" id="en-NASB-23282"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">47 </sup>If you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing <i>than others</i>? Do not even the Gentiles do the same?</span></span> <span class="text Matt-5-48" id="en-NASB-23283"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">48 </sup>Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. (Matthew 5)</span></span></span></span><br />
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W<span style="font-family: inherit;">ho can do that on their own? No one. We teach our kids to avoid or fight back when someone is mean to them. We say, "Why did that nice thing happen to them? They aren't good people." or "They were mean to me, so I am going to just pretend they don't exist." These are not loving responses. We have been so molded by our culture and Satanic attacks that we prioritize our selfish feelings above what God commands. We need to pray for people who are mean to us. We do need to love and do good to people who mistreat us or slander us. </span></div>
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I often think, "but they don't deserve love, God!" He quickly reminds me that I didn't deserve it either. I remember when Hussein and Bin Laden were killed, and I (along with the rest of the US) rejoiced. Hussein and Bin Laden didn't deserve to be loved, but it doesn't mean that I shouldn't love them. It was hard to imagine loving those men, but that is what God commands. They deserved death . . . so do I. It is easy to love people who are kind and loving. Loving people like these men, or just the person who says false things about you, this is love that only comes from God. <br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">We love, because He first loved us. (I John 4:19)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">Watch over your heart with all diligence, <span class="text Prov-4-23">For <sup class="crossreference" value="(<a href="#cen-NASB-16514AM" title="See cross-reference AM">AM</a>)"></sup> from it <i>flow</i> the springs of life. (Proverbs 4:23)</span></span></span><br />
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